Quis fallere possit amantem?
You only demand clarity because you’re too comfortable within your vagueness; You only feel insufficient because you’re extremely fearful of unconditionally caring.
Albert Camus, from Notebooks, 1951-1959 
Conventionality is not morality.
Charlotte Bronte, Jane Eyre 
Some people underestimate how erotic it is to be understood.
Mary Rakow